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What is the purpose of a gift? Learn how to receive and give gifts of joy not guilt.
The purpose of gifts extends beyond the material value of the item itself. Gifts are powerful tools for communication, connection, and emotional expression.
Expression of love and affection: a common love language in American culture is gift giving
Celebration: holidays, birthdays, weddings, and other special occasions as a way to mark the significance of the event
Gratitude: giving gifts can be a way to express gratitude for someone’s help, support, or kindness
Custom and Tradition: gift-giving is deeply ingrained in customs and traditions. It’s a way to uphold social norms, strengthen relationships, and foster a sense of community.
Surprise and Delight: giving and receiving gifts can bring joy and excitement, especially when the gift is unexpected or particularly thoughtful. It adds an element of surprise to relationships and occasions.
Let’s dive into how gifts impact our life, organization at home/work, and decluttering.
The purpose of a gift as a receiver is to receive the gift. Once you have received the gift, you have fulfilled its purpose. Now that the gift is in your possession, it is up to you to decide what to do with it.
Reflect on Your Values: Consider what’s important to you and your living space. Reflect on whether the gift you received align with your values, interests, and lifestyle. This reflection can help you prioritize which gifts to keep and which ones to let go of.
Assess the Gift:
Do you love it?
Will you use it or enjoy looking at it if it is displayed?
Does it hold sentimental value or evoke positive memories?
Does it align with your current needs and lifestyle?
Have the Courage to Donate it: The last thing the gift giver would want is for you to hold on to something the adds negatively to your life. Perhaps, he/she actually wants the opposite – for you to feel happy, content, and at your best, regardless if you keep the gift or not.
Express Gratitude: Even if you choose to declutter a gift, take a moment to express gratitude for the thoughtfulness and generosity of the giver. You can thank them sincerely for the gesture while acknowledging that the gift may not fit your needs or preferences.
When you decide to keep a gift, fulfill its purpose by deciding if it is to be used (practical) or displayed (joy):
Practical
It makes life easier
It supports you in a specific way
It is useful
Place the item in a storage place with intention where it will be used and is easy to access
Display
Sparks positive feelings when you see the item
Adds aesthetics and visual appeal to your space
Triggers a memory and experience you want to remember
When we declutter, all of our energy and time should be focused on the decision of what to keep and discard.
One of the biggest signs that you don’t love and should not keep an item is when you want to gift it.
We love to distract ourselves in different ways and one of the main ways we procrastinate during the decluttering process is when we have the desire to gift or give items away to loved ones.
What we don’t realize is that this reaction is an excuse to not let go. Instead of giving a gift of joy, we are giving a gift of guilt. The guilt that we feel about an item is then transferred to the person we give it to. Ultimately creating a vicious cycle of gifting and guilt. Common items we have the urge to gift:
Items we never used
Perceived high value: expensive, rare, unique
Sentimental value: association with specific memories, experiences, or relationships.
Gifts we have received and kept out of guilt or obligation
Fear of offending the gift giver
Attachment to material possessions: attached value to physical objects that give a sense of security or identity
Have the courage to let go. When we let go we are are also streamlining the entire organizing process by simplifying it to two piles: what to keep and what to discard.
Please see this list of donation centers and the causes they support. Pick a cause you truly care about. It will be easier to let go and give you peace of mind when you know your precious items will help those who are truly in need.
When we look back on our life when we are old, what will we remember? Will we remember the designer pants or fancy kitchen appliance? Probably not. We will think fondly of the memories, experiences, hobbies, pets, and people who made a mark on our lives.
When it comes to giving gifts, give the gift of experience. An experience or excuse, to spend quality time with your loved ones. Time is our most precious asset in life. Life goes by so quickly and it is even more important to schedule intentional time with those we care about.
Have the courage to let go and embrace the most important thing we have in life: each other!
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Today we will talk about how to declutter sentimental items specifically related to family history. First let’s dive into what sentimental family history really means.
Family history and sentimental values often intertwine to create a rich tapestry of personal identity and heritage. Each family carries its own unique story, shaped by the experiences, traditions, and values passed down through generations.
We as humans preserve this family history and memories by keeping:
heirlooms
photographs
letters
antiques
recipes
other artifacts
These items hold material significance and emotional weight, connecting individuals to our past and to those who came before us. These tangible reminders serve as bridges between generations, allowing stories to be shared and cherished.
Letting go doesn’t mean forgetting or devaluing memories, experiences, or individuals. Instead, it can be a liberating act that frees up physical and emotional space for new experiences and connections.
So how do we declutter family history?
Set yourself up for success: Letting go is a gradual process. I recommend organizing in category order from easy to difficult (clothing, books, papers, komono, sentimental) so that when you get to the hardest category, you are that much more confident about who you are and what you value (or don’t value.) This also allows for time to process your emotions.
Declutter by category, start with the easiest: subcategory examples of sentimental – photos, antiques, paper, furniture, etc.
Acknowledge feelings: Recognize and honor the emotions attached to the sentimental items. It’s okay to feel sadness, nostalgia, or even guilt when considering letting go of something meaningful.
Evaluate the significance: Assess the true importance of each item. Consider whether it aligns with your current values, lifestyle, and space constraints. Some items may hold more sentimental value than others, making them worth preserving.
Preserve memories, not things: Remind yourself that memories are not tied to physical objects. Take time to reminisce and reflect on the experiences associated with the items before parting with them.
Donate or repurpose: Find new homes for sentimental items by donating them to charity or repurposing them into something practical or decorative. Knowing that these items will be appreciated and used by others can make the process of letting go easier.
Create a legacy: Rather than keeping all sentimental items for yourself, consider selecting a few key pieces to represent your family’s history and values. Be sure to display these items to be enjoyed! This curated collection that can be passed down to future generations, preserving the essence of your family’s story.
Have the courage to let go, celebrate, and move forward. Every step our ancestors took represents an opportunity for us to live our best and most fulfilled life today.
What if you could read a letter from the perspective of a loved one you wish to remember?
Aviva Black, owner of Family Love Letters, writes letters that offer the opportunity to celebrate and honor our loved ones, creating lasting connections between generations.
Do you need help putting together your family history? Dawn Kosmakos is a genetic genealogist and owner of Sunrise DNA. She helps individuals:
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One thing I love about the new year is that it helps set a specific point in time for you to reflect.
What did you accomplish?
What did you learn?
What are your priorities today?
I KNOW. There’s big talk about resolutions and all the possibilities ahead. What makes a resolution actually happen? How do you stay committed to the process and goal?
By creating an action plan! For example:
Instead of, “I want to organize my closet.”
Say, “Every Thursday afternoon from 2-4pm I will tidy my clothing in the konmari order.”
Set a goal for each day and a goal date to complete home organizing.
Add the events in your calendar and execute.
One of the best ways to maintain organization is to schedule intentional time for specific tasks. Start small by committing an hour then two hours then three hours… It is important to #1 build the habit and #2 make it as enjoyable and easy as possible.
Reframe to the positive and embrace how each and every item serves a purpose and adds value.
Closet Tips
Remove clothes from plastic! Mold and moths can be trapped inside plastic covering your clothes. I recommend reusable & washable cloth garment bags.
Create a beautiful closet with matching hangers: it’s a simple yet effective visual appeal when you open your closet daily
Simple Kitchen Organizing
Try to store everything out of sight, inside cabinets and drawers
Install a wall basket on the inside cabinet under the sink to store soap & sponges
Store less frequently used appliances in low, easy to reach cabinets
Toss less joyful items like disposable silverware and chopsticks
Store food in air tight containers to preserve quality and for a lovely visual
Store loose dry items in bins
Snack bin: popcorn, chips, nuts, crackers
Canned: soup, beans, chicken broth
Sauces: ketchup, soy sauce, hot sauce
Health foods: protein powder, supplements
Back stock: backup cereal, energy bars, coffee
Keep joyful tools and organizers: high level of function, easy to wash/clean, and aesthetically pleasing
Atmosphere
Dedicate a “to-do” area.
Place a “pending” box for all incoming mail you want to open
Hang a calendar for all chores, appointments, reminders
Designate a work area for projects you’re working on
Create a drop-zone: this is usually near the front door where you can leave a pair shoes, jacket, mask, and wallet. It’s important to only leave one or time items of each category to avoid visual clutter.
Areas for daily rituals need to be easy to access: drop-zone, coffee & tea station, pet zone, workout zone, and more!
Storage Tricks
BINS ARE YOUR BEST FRIEND! Kitchen, Bathroom, Closet, Garage – no matter what space you are trying to organize try to CONTAIN all Like-items together!
Labels, labels, labels! Label’s help everyone in the home know where items belong and where to put them back.
Utilize all storage areas efficiently
Store large items first, place smaller items around
Install shelves on empty wall spaces
Store items of the same category together and label the shelf and/or box
Check out these book recommendations to help you start organizing!
Marie Kondo Book Recommendations
The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying up: This is such a great book to inspire you! After reading this I just knew I had to hire Marie to help my parents with their hoarder home. Soon after I signed up for her Organizing Consultant Program to start organizing on my own! This is where my professional organizing journey began. In this book she describes the deep impact of how organizing can enhance our lives. After all, don’t we all want to live our best lives?!
Joy at Work: Organizing Your Professional Life: What I love most about this book is how she explains how to organize your digital life. I swear before I read this I had soooo many old photos, documents spread all over my desktop, and absolutely no order to all my files. She also goes into detail about how to maintain a tidy workspace.
Organizing Book Recommendations
The Home Edit: A Guide to Organizing and Realizing Your House Goals: Clea and Joanna transform spaces to be practical and aesthetically beautiful. They tidy for clients instead of with clients. They love purchasing organizing containers to display everything beautifully and in rainbow color.
