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July 28, 2022September 18, 2022Leave a comment

How to organize sentimental items and showcase joy in your home

Why do I have so many keepsakes?

We hold onto items to remember and cherish the past
When we see and feel these items we relive moments in the past

Remember & Reframe

Truly special memories never die, even when we discard items associated with such events.
The joy and excitement of the here and now is more important than holding onto something from the past, only to forget about it.
The boxes we store in the attic, back of the closet, under the bed often remain there, untouched.
When we store sentimental items away they become a weight from our past that holds us back from moving forward in the present.
The space in our home is for the person we are and want to become, not who we were in the past.
Organize sentimental photos now and display them throughout your home or in a photo album to enjoy for the rest of your years.

The Guide to Organize Sentimental

Photos

Remove all photos from albums and boxes
Joy Check photos one by one
Try to keep only five photos per a trip/event
Very important photos don’t often have duplicates
Keep scenery photos when you can identify the trip/event

“The meaning of a photo lies in the excitement and joy you feel when taking it. In many cases, the prints developed afterward have already outlived their purpose.”
The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up, Marie Kondo

Letters

A letter fulfills it’s purpose the moment it’s read
The person who wrote it has long forgotten the existence of the letter, its content, and has moved on.

Gifts

Keep it if it truly sparks joy
Be courageous and say goodbye if
- you held onto this item because of a sense of guilt
- it sparked joy in the past but doesn’t spark joy in the present
- adds joy to who you are today, not who you were
- the items served its purpose in your life and by letting it go, frees more space in your home and mind for today and tomorrow

Childhood Memorabilia

Stuffed animals feel like they have souls. They were with us in our fondest childhood memories.
- If it sparks joy for you to hold and see – Display it on a shelf or in your closet
- If you choose to discard a stuffed animal it helps to cover the eyes.

How to Joy Check

Step 1: Pile all sentimental items
- If you have many photos, it’s okay to create a separate pile of just photos
Step 2: Pick one item that undoubtedly sparks joy
- If you keep it, where will it be stored?
- Will you display it so you can see and enjoy it?
- Ask yourself honestly, does it bring you joy today and in the future?
- Does this item help you cherish who you are now?
Step 3: Place items in Keep, Donate, or Trash
Step 4: Display keepsakes on walls and shelves to spark joy every day!
Step 6: Have the courage to let go & say thank you

Final Touches

When we display sentimental items we remember and celebrate who we were. We are also reminded of who we are now and who we strive to be.

Hang sentimental photos on the wall to look at it
Display sentimental items to spark joy daily

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“By handling each sentimental item and deciding what to discard, you process your past. If you just stow these things away in a drawer or cardboard box, before you realize it, your past will become a weight that holds you back and keeps you from living in the here and now.”

– The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up, Marie Kondo

Organize Kitchen Komono

July 13, 2022September 18, 2022

How to organize kitchen komono & live your best life!

Why are my counters cluttered?

No designated forever home for categories
Less frequently used items left out
Too many items to store

Marie Kondo’s Tidy Order

Cooking

Cooking Utensils
Cookware
Appliances

Eating

Dish-ware
Cutlery
Mats, Coasters, Towels, accessories etc.
Food Storage Containers

Food

Dry goods/Canned
Snacks
Baking
Teas & Coffee
Health foods

*If there are many items in a category, create a new subcategory*

How to Joy Check Kitchen Komono

Step 1: Pile one subcategory at a time
Step 2: Check expiration dates
Step 3: Pick an item that sparks joy
- How often do you use this?
- Does this make your life easier?
- When did you buy this?
Step 4: Place items in Keep, Donate, or Trash
Step 5: Store items by category temporarily (final storage will be at the end)
Step 6: Donate food/Toss expired foods in the trash

Tips to Organize Kitchen Komono

Take a deep breath
Begin the easiest subcategory to joy check
- Example: if you love baking, start with baking supplies or baking foods
Store large items first
- Fill in the gaps with smaller items
Let the design of your kitchen guide you
- Example: cups stored near “coffee station”
Containers & Bins are your BEST FRIENDS! Try to contain each category together by placing everything in a bin. Take a step further and label!

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“Keep things because you love them – not ‘just because'”

– The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up, Marie Kondo

Organize Komono

June 21, 2022September 18, 2022

How to organize komono – all the miscellaneous items in your life!

Why are my drawers and cabinets chaotic?

No designated forever home for categories
Not putting things away

Marie Kondo’s Tidy Order

1. CDs/ DVDs
2. Stationery supplies: tools, paper-like (post-its), letter writing (envelope)
3. Electronic Items (phones, camera)
4. Electronic Cords
5. Electric items: USB, ink cartridges for printers, batteries
6. Skin care items
7. Makeup
8. Hair goods
9. Relaxing goods: candles, essential oils,
10. Hygiene care
11. Medicine
12. Valuables: passbook, wallets, certificates
13. Sewing kit materials and cloth: thread, scissors, needles, tweezers, etc.
14. Tools
15. Hobby
16. Collections
17. “Just Because” buttons, key chains, change, phone cases
18. Linen & Towels
19. Stuffed Toys
20. Recreation: fishing, balls, equipment
21. Seasonal
22. Special occasion: ceremonial, charms, ritual objects
23. Rain gear
24. Paper + Shopping Bags
25. Consumables: tissue, toilet paper, etc.

If there are many items in a category, create a new subcategory

How to Joy Check

Step 1: Pile one subcategory at a time
Step 2: Pick an item that sparks joy
- Does it spark joy for you today?
- Does it weigh you down or compete with your other priorities?
- Does it contribute to your ideal lifestyle moving forward?
- Is it something worth keeping if you move?
Step 3: Place items in Keep, Donate, or Trash
Step 4: Store items by category temporarily (final storage will be at the end)

Facts about komono

Be mindful of the items you kept “just because.” See how much of this category takes up precious space.
Presents show someone thought of you. The gift should not be kept out of a sense of obligation, guilt, or should be stored away. Thank it for the joy it gave you when you received it and say goodbye if it is not joyful.
Travel toiletries have a short shelf life of a few weeks to six months at most
Throw away mystery cords. They’ll always be an unsolved mystery.
How often do you have overnight guests? If you have guests once or twice a year, be mindful of how many linens you need and keep only ones that spark joy.
Free, new, unused items such as calendars, etc, can be donated
Add spare change in your wallet so you can use it

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“Keep things because you love them – not ‘just because'”

– The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up, Marie Kondo

Organize Papers

May 25, 2022September 18, 2022

How to organize papers effectively

Why are papers everywhere?

Even in our digital age, we accumulate receipts, tags, warranties, mail
Papers saved over the years for events like tax season
Coursework we intended to refer back to from seminars/classes

The guide to success

Create a pending box for “to-do” items
Have a file folder or file box with dividers
Separate sensitive documents for shredding
Save shredding for last, shred everything at the same time

How to set up to organize papers –

Gather a manageable amount of papers in a pile or box. Pile an amount that is reasonable to sort through in your set timeframe.
Ready your supplies
- filing cabinet/folder accessible
- labeler or labels to write down each category
- Recycling bin/bag
- Shredding bin/bag
- Pending box (to-do items)
- phone or camera nearby
Create labels for subcategories. A few examples are:
- Tax
- Medical
- Auto
- Work
- Manuals/Warranties
Have extra blank labels on hand for new categories you discover as you go.

How to Joy Check papers?

Step 1: Pile all papers on large surface
Step 2: Pick up papers or a binder one by one.
Step 3: Joy Check
- What papers make life easier?
- What documents are essential to keep for the future?
- When did you last refer to these papers? (Seminars/Coursework)
- Have you ever used this for reference?
- Will you reference this? If so, when?
Step 4: As you sort, subcategorize keep papers in separate piles or a filing cabinet
Step 5: Separate and pile empty folders, binders, and notebooks. At the VERY END you will be able to see all of these together. This is the opportunity to joy check and pick the ones you want to keep and use!
Step 6: If you want to digitize your documents, I recommend to take photos at the end of each paper session rather than at the very end of ALL papers. This helps to break up the monotony of paper sorting while helping you to digitize your documents as you go.
Step 7: Recycle discards & shred sensitive documents
Step 8: Designate a home for your papers to live. Perhaps in the office or a cabinet.

Storage

Have a “pending box” for all incoming mail
Attend to your pending box regularly to avoid build-up
Store all papers in one spot ex. office

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Organize Books

May 4, 2022September 18, 2022

How to organize books successfully

The guide to success:

Always keep your ideal lifestyle in mind! As you prepare to organize books we need to refrain from reading. When we read books it distracts us from focusing on our emotions.

Rule 1: Take every book off the shelf
Rule 2: Do not open and read the books
Rule 3: Book trilogies can be held at the same time

Marie Kondo’s Tidy Order

General (books for pleasure)
Practical (instructional, cookbooks, etc.)
Visual (coffee table, photography etc.)
Magazines

How to Joy Check

Step 1: Pile all books in the entire home
Step 2: Pick a book that Sparks Joy – use this as an inspirational marker
Step 3: Pick up a book one at a time. Focus on the feeling it gives you. Think of its purpose. Ask yourself a few of the joy checking questions to make a decision.
Step 4: Place book in keep or donate pile
Step 5: Store books to keep on shelves temporarily

Joy Checking Questions

Do you want this information to stay by you and support you as your life changes?
Is the potential future use of the book equal to the value of the space it will take up?
Do you want this book in your ideal lifestyle environment?
What emotions and feelings will you enhance by having this book in your life?

Why is it hard to discard books?

“I might read it again.”
- Ask yourself honestly, have you read your favorite books more than once?
Books are meant to be read. If you’ve read it, then the knowledge is inside of you.
We always have the best intentions. Have the courage to ask yourself honestly if you will read it or accept that this book has served its purpose in teaching you what you don’t like to read.
If you can’t commit to reading it today, most likely someday will not happen.
- Let it go.
If you let go of a book and are still thinking about it, you learned that you’re passionate enough to buy another copy and read it.